Fifth Dawn

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Fifth Dawn

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Fifth Dawn

The Best Years of Your Life

Jake and Dawn are a couple in their early 50’s. They run their own business and own their home. They have 2 children, ages 15 & 17. Last year, Jake’s father was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s Disease. Jake’s mother is having a difficult time figuring out how to handle this new crisis in their lives and relies heavily on Jake and Dawn for emotional support and to help her with general household upkeep. Jake and Dawn’s time is stretched thin. Between caring for their children, caring for their parent’s home, helping Jake’s mother with medical decisions and working - there is no time to even have a quiet dinner together.According to Statistics Canada, one-fifth of the population over age 45 is providing unpaid care for a senior. Sandwiched between caring for their own children and caring for aging parents, Jake and Dawn are among this group that has come to be called the Sandwich Generation.

As difficult as things are for Jake and Dawn, let’s shift focus and look at things from Amy’s point of view. Amy is a 75 year old woman. Recently, her husband’s Alzheimer’s has progressed and he cannot even be left alone. She is unsure of how long they will be able to live in their home, and she must now rely on her son and daughter-in-law to help her on an almost daily basis. Things she never gave a second thought to, like going for a walk or a trip to the grocery store, must now be planned or postponed altogether.

Children are finding it challenging to add “caring for their parents” into their already busy life schedules; and senior parents are struggling to maintain some level of independence as they age. This scenario is becoming more commonplace. There are a growing number of businesses providing services for people who find themselves somewhere in the sandwich.

Services to help seniors stay independent in as many ways as possible as they enter the phase of life where they are in need of additional care, thus taking pressure off of younger family members. Helping seniors stay active has tremendous health benefits. It helps with mental alertness, maintains physical conditioning and builds self esteem. Sadly, family members often do not have the time in their own schedules to help the senior maintain his or her own routines and lifestyle. The senior ends up at the mercy of the caregiver’s schedule.

Home support services will work with seniors or with family members who are responsible for their care to develop a program that is centered on the individual person. In some instances, this means taking the client on weekly visits to shopping centers, recreation facilities, medial appointments or social gatherings.

The later part of life is often depicted as a lonely time. It doesn’t need to be. Family members don’t have to shoulder all of the physical, emotional and social needs of a senior for whom they are responsible. It also doesn’t have to cost a fortune. Home support services can ease what is perceived as a burden for a cost that is extremely un-burdensome.

If you haven’t found yourself in the sandwich yet, the chances are that you will. It may happen quite suddenly, due to injury or illness. Providing some forethought will ease the transition so the latter years really can be the best years of life

About the Author

Jo-Ann Keith is a graduate of the two year Human Service Worker program at Okanagan College in Kelowna, BC. She brings with her a wealth of skills from working in extended care units, assisted living complexes, group homes that support people with developmental disabilities and mental health issues. Additionally she has worked with the deaf/blind. Jo-Ann has Level 1 First Aid, CPR, Food Safe, Serving It Right, SuperHost and is bondable. You may visit Caring 4 U Support Services at www.caring4u.ca or contact them at 250-765-8949.